Did he deserve a second chance???

life does not always give a second chance... and being a victim of that myself i thought i was being nice in giving him a second chance... a chance to redeem himself and wipe away that hurt he gave.. nobody is perfect.. and to err is human.. life is too short to hold grudges.. and so i decided to forgive and move on.. start afresh.. but then history does repeat itself.. and too soon at that..
and then when i read somewhere i realised "first time shame on him, second time shame on you, for being so stupid tio let him back knowwing he'd already done it once"

and now.. i turned the page, turned the chapter and closed the book.. but the thought remains.. "did he deserve a second chance???"