Some people ask do best friends fight? Well may be not all it really depends you know. There are best friends who understand each other totally, know immediately that something is wrong. You’d hardly see them fighting. And there is another set, who can’t seem to finish the day without a fight, it’s just as if it’s a mandatory part of the daily routine. But that doesn’t mean that they understand each other any less.
There are many who say that spending quality time, understanding each other, listening to them are the best ways to strengthen a relationship.
Not many will agree with me, but what I would add to the list is a nice healthy fight. Uh.. I am sure there are raised eyebrows. But with a few people it really does work... and i'm talking about the "violent conflicts" not conflicts in the literal sense, with not much of perceived or actual oppositions of views and needs, but violent yes!! (everyone cant afford a punching bag. can they?)
Each time the silly fight occurs; there is one who attempts the sincere apology and the other who stone heartedly rejects it. Only to say a couple of minutes later, I don’t need an apology from you stupid!! Sometimes it may take a little longer than a couple of minutes, but that does not mean there is a hard bricked wall, there is only a little veil that does not take more than a moment to throw off.
Each time the fight is over the smile seems to get brighter and the bond seems to grow deeper.
The Peter Drucker Column !
9 years ago
4 comments:
ya i really need a punching bag...who will i take out my anger on.. and for not accepting sorry u got the msg already with the explanation... and thanks alot for the cribbin... it did work if u cried for tht purpose..(atleast i assumed u cribbed for tht.. if i m wrong correct me)......GOONK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
u got it perfectly right u jackass
goonkk?? :P
ya.. but i prefer twonk :P
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